Dec
25
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If after you begin dating, have dated several different women and every relationship seems to end after only a short time, it’s time for you to do a reality check. There are certain behaviors that turn women off in a hurry and you need to make certain that you aren’t doing any of them.
Dec
20
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All in all, dating is very much like meeting a prospective client and making a sale in the business world. The product you are selling is YOU.
No, not your body, of course! However, YOU as the person that the woman (client) would like to date and get to know better.
Just like it would be out in the business world, the first impression is the deal-maker or breaker. If you produced a product to sell out in the business world that way dirty and actually smelled bad, you would likely never make a sale. In the dating world, if you appear dirty, disheveled and unkempt, you aren’t likely to make a sale there either.
First impressions are immediate, long lasting, and usually permanent.
Regardless of how great you are, and no matter how sweet you can be once someone gets to know you, the reality is, your dating success will be based almost entirely upon the other person’s initial sense of who and what you are. There are statistics that bear out the power of first impressions.
Statistics show that how we appear speaks more about us, and is more important, than what we say verbally. It is a fact that in our personal affairs, as in all our business dealings, we sell ourselves first. Poor attitude, image, and behavior will adversely affect your dating success, just as it will negatively affect your success in business.
Dec
15
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Men and women think, act and decide differently - about everything. As Dr. John Gray wrote, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”. The differences between how men and women view the dating process are as far apart as the North and South Poles on planet Earth.
Women thoroughly relish the long swelling waves of romancing that go up and down in our minds. We feel completely absorbed, engulfed and rejuvenated while going through the rigmarole of emotional upheavals. We LOVE sailing through the rough seas of dating and romance.
Dec
10
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Knowing your special lady well is going to require that you be able to understand her behavior. Behavior alone is a major key to the health of a relationship, and how she behaves in a restaurant, or at a concert, or down at the beach will be determined by many different things. To start with, try to pay attention to how your mood affects her mood.
Noticing the way your good day, or your bad day, affect you, and then how your resulting behavior affects her, will help you tremendously. Similarly, take note of how she reacts when you’re out on a date. Is there a crowd? Does this bother her, or give her more energy? What’s the weather like? Does she hate the rain, or does she think it has a romantic feel to it?
Dec
05
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The same can be said for men. For example, if a woman was to assume that all men love football she’d be wrong. Likewise, a man would be wrong to assume that all women love cats. Each woman is unique, so you must take the time to find out what she, as a unique person, really wants before you can seduce her.
Family and friends can be a valuable source of information when it comes to finding out more about your special lady. However, I must stress to you that you shouldn’t put too much stock in what you learn from them without learning as much as you can from her, first.
Nov
30
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Grab your pens, paper, and get ready to take notes. Well, maybe not, but studying skills will certainly be to your advantage if you plan to seduce a woman successfully. This is one of those hugely important things in a relationship when you’re trying to move things right along to the level of romance.
Getting to know that special woman is about the time you spend with her, and about what you get from communication, both verbal and physical. And the more you know, the better your chances. Trust me, if you plan to keep your relationship moving forward, you are going to have to find out as much as you can about her.
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Nov
25
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Body language can often be the key to knowing whether you’ve derailed a good conversation. A frown on her face may be a good clue that you’ve said something to make her uncomfortable. If she starts looking toward the door or looking at her watch, you should know what that means. She’s losing interest and you’d better get the conversation moving again.
Not always, but most often, her body-language can be a great guide to how you’re doing with the conversation. One of the most important things to note about body language is that it varies from person to person. What looks like an expression of discomfort or frustration on one face may very well be concentration on another.
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Nov
20
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Talking is something we all think about when we hear the word ‘communication’. But, unfortunately, that first thought is the wrong one if you’re looking for a good relationship with potential for romance.
Talking will get you nowhere, and worse, it may cause things to fall backward or even to fall apart.
When you talk, you’re expecting someone else to listen. But what about the listener? When does she get the chance to be heard? That’s why it’s so much better to change your view from one of simply talking, to one where you see communication as the carrying on of a conversation.
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Nov
15
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Communication is such an important factor in all relationships, business and personal alike, that it should come as no surprise that we need to discuss it here as well. What is communication, after all? It is the two-way interaction that occurs, both verbally and non-verbally.
What is said with actions is as important, if not more so, than what is said with words. But here we’re going to focus our attention on the importance of verbal communication and what it will mean for your relationship. Keep in mind that when I talk about how things affect your relationship, I’m mainly concerned with your success in the realm of seduction.
Nov
10
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Try to avoid places that either of you may have gone with people from previous relationships. This will definitely undermine the romantic mood you’re going for.
Next you’ll want to be sure that the location you’ve chosen will be intimate. You won’t want to choose anywhere that will be noisy as this will detract from the romantic mood you’re trying to set. Avoid places that are crowded areas, too. Even though it may not be noisy, the hustle and bustle and be very distracting and won’t lend anything to the intimacy that you want.